Well hey everybody was sup it been a good while but i need to get some stuff off my chest well here it goes and i hope that this don't make anybody look at me differently b/c i am changing this habit for now on.....
Well as u can c the title is called friend hopping. Friend hopping is when you meet new people and then the old people in your life u forget. Well u don't forget them the things that y'all did b4 such as hang out, call, text etc.... it kinda goes down, but still keep in contact with the old people. just like club hopping going from one to another one to another one.
Well for the past couple of months me and my friend was kinda getting into it. Well yesterday i had went to her school to talk it out and she told that me that i act brand new when i meet new people and i forget the old people. The thing with that is that i told her that if i do forget the old people then why is it that i still text and call them. yes it may not be as strong as it should have been but i mean at least i keep in contact with them. In life u meet new people and that is just how it goes but hey that is life.
When i got home i thought about how many times that i heard somebody say that i act brand new and i come to realize i did sometimes forget about my old friends and i can say i apologize for that. I know that i was wrong and i can say it. Now that is something some ppl can say.but i can at least say that i tried to still keep in contact with them so that it we can fix it. Now if the person don't want to contact me and fix it then fine that is their choice. like the saying all u can do is try. And some of the reasons that i am not friends with some ppl is not only b/c of my fault there is both sides of the stick that was burnt in order to make the friendship burn.
In conclusion i will say this and i will follow this statement. i found a new group of friends called kamotion and i promise that i will not friend hop on them b/c that is messed up and i wouldn't want a repeat of what happen between me and my other friend. I found two friends that i really can trust and that i can depend on in this group, but i love all them in general. Oh and trust there are some of my old friends that i still love and deal with such as the people that i work with and some of the people i went to middle school with. And for now on all my friends in the future i will NOT FORGET about kamotion, but that doesn't mean that i will not kick it with y'all and them. College open a person eyes to new people. to all my friends now much love and to all my future friends much love. and i promise my habit of friend hopping is over b/c i wouldn't want that to happen to me.
I love you mark! Know that! And all I can say is, finding new friends is all apart of life. Everything happens for a reason, so, if moving on from an old friend happens, its because god has something in store for you with a new person in your life. But keeping in touch works both ways.. just saying. if you're keeping in contact with that person, and nothing's changing, it might be the other person. think about that one.
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